In Memory of Conrod K.H. Cottoy

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we miss and love you dearly. we talk of you every day. you now have 2 grandsons.... I love you kofi, still, always and forever.

*** Posted by paula cottoy on 2011-09-22 ***

God Bless You, my darling husband. It's another year past without you in body, but always in my heart, dreams and thoughts. I love you still. I'm so tired from today's event, 9/11/2010, I'll tell you about it later. I'm going to bed now, I've had your grandson with me for 2 weeks nonstop. Although his mom, our son and him live downstairs he is always upstairs. Good nite for now, kofi, I love you so much.

*** Posted by paula hayes-cottoy on 2010-09-11 ***

Its another new year without you. God bless your soul. We still miss you, love you, and speak of you almost every week. This was the closest new year our sons and I ever shared since you were taken from our lives. It's still very difficult for any of them to really express what they are feeling. Every month one of us still breaks down and cries, but now we don't have to ask why because we all know exactly why. The only support we have is God and his son, Jesus Christ. No one else even cares. I tried so hard to make you understand that while you were living. Do you see now? I hate saying, "I told you so." We will talk again. I'm sure of it. I love you, Kofi. I will always love you by caring for your sons until my last breath!

*** Posted by P. Cottoy on 2010-01-01 ***

I miss you still.

*** Posted by paula cottoy on 2009-01-13 ***

I am so sorry for your loss, Mrs Cottoy. He's not dead, just away. I pray for help with your four sons. God is love.

*** Posted by xandra on 2008-09-11 ***

I still love you, Kofi. You and I spoiled our sons, and God knows I'm now paying for it. I hope you can please give God a message for me, and it is, "PLEASE HELP ME WITH OUR FOUR SONS!" I really can not do it alone any more! You are still the smartest person I have ever met in my entire life. I miss you so very much. God bless your soul always.

*** Posted by paula cottoy on 2008-08-14 ***

Conrod,

You were one of my best friends. Since I moved from NY to Florida in '83, you came and spend several months with me. I wish you were able to find your niche, so you would have stayed in Florida. We talked at least once every week, and I always looked forward to calling you. I think about you all the time and wonder why this terrible tragedy should befall you. But then I know that God always have a purpose in everything. Our finite minds cannot understand because the pain is too great for us to endure. I know that one day we will see each other again. While I am not in contact with your boys and Paula, I pray for them all the time. May God grant them strength and comfort as they remember you and all the good times you guys enjoyed together. Time cannot erase our friendship; you will always be my friend, sadly missed.

Love,
lk

*** Posted by Ledger L Kellier on 2008-02-28 ***

Hello Paula (Auntie)

My name is Susan Cottoy. My Mum and Dad (Clifton, known as Flexi Cottoy) were born in St Vincent. I know we are family, as this is a very rare surname. I am so sorry, Paula (and family), to hear about your husband's death. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know what it's like losing someone close to you. You never forget them; it is still like yesterday. May God bless you and your family always. If ever you come to London for a visit, please feel free to email me on suecottoyrogers@aol.com--I would love to meet you and your family.

Susan from England

*** Posted by Susan Cottoy on 2007-12-11 ***

My name is Carlos Cottoy. I am originally from St vincent and the Grenadines, west Indies. First of all, my condolences to the surviving family. In all my years, I have never known that there were any other Cottoy's apart from those in St Vincent, and those who have left and went to Guyana, Trinidad and the United Kingdom etc. I would very much like to know where the name Cottoy came from and whether we are related in any way. Could you please reply to me at my e-mail address? It's carloscottoy@yahoo.co.uk Thank you.

*** Posted by Carlos Cottoy on 2006-10-10 ***

I played football with Conrod's son Kojo Cottoy and was friends with his other son Ngozi, I remember Conrod as a man who always had a smile on his face he went to every game and was one of our photographers I remember hanging out with him one time after practice and laughing at one of the stupidities one of my teammates did. I knew very little about him, but what I knew i'll always remember and cherish

*** Posted by Emmanuel Rodriguez on 2006-10-03 ***

Since I first learned of Conrod Cottoy's untimely death, on 9/11/01 -- my heart weighed with heaviness, my eyes whelmed, my throat became swollen as I grieved for him and his family he left behind. My Father, (God Rest His Soul), introduced Mr. Cottoy to our family of both the home and church in which they both serviced. Mr. Cottoy, as I could remember was such a beautiful spirit. I thought his round face, and smile was so warm to me. He had such a sweet disposition and very quiet spoken. I loved his wife, Paula (MISS and LOVE YOU PAULA)... I was young, but could still recall how STRONG-WILLED and SPIRITED PAULA was back then.. so strong of a woman.. especially with her sons... I recall three at that time. They were so high-strung and energetic, and it took a strong woman to raise them. Paula always had a way with them and I admired that. So, I'm sure, she's being strong now... the rock I always saw her be for them all. At one time, Conrod Cottoy stood beside my Father up on a pulpit at Hope Evangelical Babtist Church... now I know they stand side by side in Heaven... preparing the way for all of us... with those warm smiles they both carry. You'll always be remembered, Conrad, God Rests Your Soul. Love you and miss you Paula. May God's Strength be with you.

*** Posted by MoLisa Halls-Wiscovitch on 2006-09-11 ***

I met Conrad Cottoy son in high school in 2000. We found out we was cousins and we boned quickly. I never got a chance to meet my uncle, but i did get a chance to speak to him. I know he was a wonderful, hardworking father. I still keep in touch with his wife and his sons. I love them dearly and which them all the best.
I love U conrad cottoy and i will look after your football player( Your son Kojo Cottoy) love Sade Cottoy God Bless You

*** Posted by Sade Cottoy on 2006-03-02 ***

I never new Conrod, although we share the same surname. I feel we are family as we have such a rare name.  Paula and son's the other Cottoy family in England have you in our prayers. May you find peace in our Lord Jesus Christ.  Blessings

*** Posted by Kathleen J. Cottoy on 2005-10-10 ***

conrod kofi herberth cottoy, Sr. was my husband for 26 + years.  I still love you very much. Our marriage was not an easy one, there was too much problems and yet I still love and miss you terriablly. Your four sons are still having a difficult time adjusting.  I'm really trying to move on with my life and it's so very hard not having you to fuss with (smile).  God rest your soul, love always. Please look out for our sons.

*** Posted by paula cottoy on 2004-10-06 ***

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