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In Tribute to Steven Paul Chucknick
44 years old.   Residence: Cliffwood Beach, N.J.
Died in World Trade Center

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Hi, my love!

Well, spring is now here, and the days are getting longer. Before you know it, all the flowers will be in bloom, and the earth will look new and alive again. I remember how much you loved spring, so I will plant flowers just for you.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-03-23 ***

Hi, my Sweetheart,

It's late, and of course I can't sleep, so here I am.... It seems like winter is winding down and spring is on the way. The flowers and plants are starting to peek up through the ground, and the air is getting that change-of-season feeling.... I will miss the winter, but that is the whole circle of life.... I miss our walks on the beach or in the park together.... I still go and make believe you are by my side.... Steve ... I always will....

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-03-20 ***

My Angel,

The days have been getting warmer now, and the snow is all gone already.... It makes you feel as though spring is really here. They say it will get colder again, which is fine with me. I don't think I am ready to let your winter go yet. The days are passing so very quickly, and all I can do is think of you. I love you so much.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-03-10 ***

Barbara, hello!

Its Nicole again! :-)

I just wanted to reply to what you said back to me. I think it's wonderful that you are able to live each day because of the love that you and Steve had. I think it's also wonderful that you are able to be so open and beautifully spoken about your feelings. I don't know what it is, but I feel so close to you. Reading your words, I feel like we're kindred spirits (although separated by years and wisdom).

Anyways, I would love to keep in contact with you if that's possible. If so, my email is nmpatt (at) gmail (dot) com. I hope to hear from you soon!

Hope you're having a wonderful day!

*** Posted by Nicole Patterson on 2009-03-07 ***

My Beloved Husband,

I am so sorry that I haven't spoken to you in a while.
It has been a long, cold winter. Monday we finally got the big snow storm I have been waiting for. And as it came down, I smiled because I felt as though it was a gift from you. The ground looks so beautiful when it is covered with new snow. It's as though everything is all right with the world again, even if only for a few moments. I think of you every day and always will. I get my strength from you, and I still get my inspiration from you. When times get tough, I know I can stop and talk to you and know that everything will be all right. I love you with all my heart and with all my soul.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-03-04 ***


Thank you for your kind words. They mean a lot to me. You were so very young when this happened, and now I see that you are a young married woman with a child of your own. My son Steven was 12, and now he is 20 and in college. It all seems like yesterday to me, and yet the years have passed so quickly. You are right. There is such an emptiness in my life, but as I have said many times, Steve lives in my heart because he is my heart and always will be. I am so proud to be his wife and always will be. Hold onto your husband and child like every day is your last. True love stays with you forever and that is a wonderful gift from God. Thank you for your kindness, and I wish you so much happiness in the years to come.

Hugs back to you,
Barbara and Steven

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-03-04 ***


I hope that you read this comment. I must say, your husband must have been such a wonderful man. As I read through each comment you left him, my eyes filled with tears. I am so so sorry for your pain. I am so sorry that you and your family have to pass each day with such a hole in your hearts. I was only 14 when 9/11 happened. Until recently, I was so foolishly unaware how much it affected people.

Barbara, I am 22. I am a wife and a mother of a beautiful 11-week-old baby girl. It hurts me so much to think of living without my husband, and for my daughter to live without her father.

You have touched me by your words. I will never forget because of you.

I'll think of you often. *hugs*

*** Posted by Nicole Patterson on 2009-03-01 ***

My Love,

You will always be my Valentine forever.

My heart to yours only,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-02-15 ***

My Beloved Husband,

Saturday is Valentines day, and I am so alone without you. I need you to know that my heart still belongs to only you and always will. I still have the first Valentine gift you ever gave me, and I cherish it. I still have all the cards you sent me, and I read them every holiday. They were all so very beautiful. I love you, Sweetheart, and my heart will reach to heaven to be with you on Saturday.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-02-13 ***

Hi, Sweetheart!

It's just me. Well, we finally had the big snowfall today, and it's so incredibly beautiful. It's the kind you like, where the snow clings to the trees and makes it look like a winter wonderland.... I left white lights in one of the big trees in front of the house, and the snow is heavy and is bending the branches ever so slightly. The tree is all covered with snow, and the white lights look so beautiful. I know you would love it if you saw it—but then maybe you do. I miss you so very much but will love you always.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-02-04 ***

My Angel,

Today was a sad day because its the eighth birthday I have had to spend without you.... My family and friends made it beautiful, but I just couldn't stop thinking about you and the beautiful birthdays that you gave me in the past.... We always spent it quietly just the three of us. Steven knew I was sad and really tried to cheer me up.... I smiled, but my heart was missing you so much.... Again my wish is to maybe see you even for a moment ... if only in my dreams.... I love you, my Angel.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-01-29 ***

My Love...

I just wanted to simply say, "I  L O V E  Y O U," tonight!

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-01-22 ***

My Angel,

The winter has really set in now, and the temperatures are well below freezing.... I sit here with the fireplace on, just thinking of you more and more.... It's funny ... when you were here, the cold never seemed as cold as it does now.... I could always find warmth in your arms. I miss that so very much. Please know how very much in love with you I am and always will be....

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-01-15 ***

My Love,

Steven and I have been forced to start another year without you ... another year of 'could have beens' and 'should have beens.' Our Son will be 21 years old this year, and he was such a young boy when we lost you.... The days fly by faster than you can imagine ... and you are missed every moment of every day.... I dreamed of you last night, but I still cannot figure out the meaning of the dream. All I know is that you looked so very handsome. And then I had to wake up again without you.... I will miss you forever, my love.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2009-01-04 ***

My Beloved Husband,

Today is Christmas day.... It is our eighth without you, and there aren't any words to describe the pain that is in my heart. I miss you so much, and time will never heal this pain.

My Heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-12-26 ***

My Angel,

I can't believe that Christmas is now just five days away.... I have been thinking of you so much, and I just don't have the Christmas spirit this year.... The world we live in now is not a nice one. So we are keeping Christmas in our hearts this year ... which is where it should always be.... I miss you so much....

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-12-21 ***

My Sweet Husband,

I'm sorry I haven't spoken to you on here in a while, but you are in my thoughts every moment of the day. I guess I have just been feeling down. I can't believe that Christmas is here again and that it is our eighth without you. I don't remember any of them, as these years seem like a blur to me. I miss you more than ever, and, as I look at the Christmas lights, my heart hurts so much because I want you here with us, and I want things to be as they were. The times with you were when I smiled and when I laughed and when I felt so very safe. I will love you for the rest of my life until I am in your arms again.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-12-15 ***

My Love,

Thanksgiving is over, and you were missed so much by everyone.... We talked about you so much, and we all remembered how much you loved us being together.... My sister spoke about how much Steven is like you in so very many ways.... It was nice to hear everyone thinking and talking about you, because that meant that you will always be with us in our hearts.... I don't know how to get through this Christmas without you.... It's harder and harder every year.... Please let me know that you are near!

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-11-28 ***

Hi, Sweetheart,

Well, tomorrow is Thanksgiving. It will be our eighth without you, and it still hurts as bad as the first one did. You should be here with us, and my heart breaks to know you are not. I sat down by the water this evening, watching the sun go down. Manhattan was so vivid, and I stayed and watched the lights go on as if I were waiting to see the lights of the Trade Center just one more time. All I could do was think of you. I saw your face so clearly in my mind, and my heart just broke all over again. Tomorrow we will spend Thanksgiving with my sister, and when we give thanks to God, I will be thankful for my wonderful family, my loving son, and most of all, I will thank God that He put you in my life, even though it was ended so very quickly.... I love you so much, and my prayer is to know what happened to you. I can go through life dealing with knowing, but not knowing is slowly killing me.... I miss you so much.... Happy Thanksgiving, my Angel.

My heart to only yours forever and all eternity,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-11-26 ***

My Angel,

Today is Steven's 20th birthday. Can you believe it? Where has to time gone? Oh, how I wish you were here with us. Steven is so like you. He doesn't want a fuss made, so we spent it together, just he and I. I know you were watching over him today. His smile is so much like yours that I sometimes can't help but stare. You should be very proud of him and the man he has become.... We love you so very much.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-11-16 ***

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