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In Tribute to Steven Paul Chucknick
44 years old.   Residence: Cliffwood Beach, N.J.
Died in World Trade Center

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My Love,

I just wanted to tell you that I love you, and I miss you so very much. I can't believe it's almost Thanksgiving and the holidays are here. It is our eighth without you, and I miss you every moment of every day.... What's even harder to believe is that Steven will be 20 years in only a couple of days.... He was just 12 when we lost you. I don't know where the time has gone.... The only thing I do know for sure is how much I miss you and how I am so in love with you.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-11-13 ***

Hi, my love,

Just sitting here thinking of you. I was looking through some pictures today and came upon so many of you that I love.... I want to put most of them in frames, so I can always smile when I see them.... I can't believe that October is almost over.... I guess pretty soon it will be time to get ready for Thanksgiving.... Again my thanks will be that you are my husband and that we have such a wonderful and handsome son.... I love you so much.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-26 ***

My Beloved Husband,

It was 21 years ago today that we said, "I do." I sit here early in the morning and just think of you. The day is exactly as it was 21 years ago--cool and crisp. I remember how very handsome you looked, especially on that day. I remember taking our vows and feeling almost numb with joy and the thought that we would spend the rest of our lives together.... I don't know how to get through this day, but I must. Every moment of every hour is playing in my head the things we did. I look at our photos, and my heart breaks that you are not here with me. I look at your beautiful smile and the happiness in our eyes as we started our life together. We had our ups and downs, but the love we have for each other always shined through. They say that when we leave this earth, we take our love with us. I hope that is true, and I hope that today you are with me and remembering me the way I always remember you and hold you deep in my heart. I will meet you down by the water today if just to show you I am still so very much in love with only you, and I still wear our ring.... I love you my darling and forever will.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-23 ***

My Love,

Tomorrow is our 21st Wedding Anniversary, and I want you to know that I would do it all over again a million times if I could. Being married to you were the happiest days of my life. I never thought for one moment that it would end so soon. I hold you so deep in my heart, and as far as I am concerned, you and I will be married forever. You are the only one I will ever love for the rest of my days.... I love you so very much.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-22 ***

My Love,

Today I cried.... You were on my mind so very much, and I guess I was just daydreaming back to the day we got married. You looked so very handsome.... How lucky I was. I guess as our anniversary gets closer, my mind will not let me rest. I could see you again in my mind: The way you walked, the way you held your head and smiled, the sound of your voice.... It became too much to handle, and so I cried and had that sick feeling, knowing that I will never be able to hold you or kiss you again. As I write this to you now, tears fill my eyes, because the reality that you are not ever coming home is setting in.... I still have all your things here. You were supposed to be here with me. I try to be strong, but there are times when I just can't deal with it anymore. I miss you so very much. I love you more than life itself and always will.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-18 ***


Steve was one in a million, and he will always be my love and my hero. Thank you for keeping his memory alive by posting.


*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-16 ***


My heart goes out to you. I can feel your pain by reading your heartfelt words. How lucky you were to have experienced such a deep and caring relationship with your husband. My hope is that you will teach others how to love with such an open heart. Your husband was a true hero.


*** Posted by Debbie on 2008-10-15 ***

My Love,

It's early morning, and I was just sitting here thinking about you. I can't believe it is the middle of October already. The leaves are coming down quickly now, and you can feel the difference in the air. Halloween is just around the corner, and as much as I love it, I just didn't feel like decorating this year. This is the first time that I failed to do so. I am really having trouble coming back after this 9/11. This anniversary hit me harder than the rest, and I just can't seem to function. Perhaps Christmas will be better. Next week is our 21st Anniversary, and I need you to know that I still love you more than life itself. You are in my heart to stay....

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucnick on 2008-10-15 ***

My Love,

The season is changing very quickly and the leaves are starting to fall. I can't believe that it is now October 9th. On the 23rd we will be married 21 years, and I don't know where the time went. Every year I repeat my vows to you because only you will hold my heart for all eternity. I wish you were here to celebrate with me, but I promise I will spend the day with you. I will again meet you down by the water. I know that if I stare over to where the towers stood that you will be with me. I saw our movie the other night again. I was flipping through the channels and saw the end of "What Dreams May Come." This was at 12:45, and when it was over, I told you I loved you and laid my head down. Just at that moment the phone rang ... but there was no one there.... Was it you telling me that you love me? I hope so. I will forever love you.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-09 ***

Hi, my Angel,

I am feeling just a bit under the weather tonight, but I wanted to tell you I love you--more than you could ever imagine....

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-02 ***

Thank you, Mark. I sent you an e-mail!

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-02 ***

My Love,

The night time seems to be coming faster and faster ... and before we know it, another year will be gone.... Tonight, my love, I feel so sad because, as the years are slipping away, the last kiss you gave me, although it remains in my heart, is slipping away as well. Today is 2577 days since we said, "I love you" ... and it was our last. I will always and forever tell you how much I miss you and love you....

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-10-01 ***


You can contact me at mark (dot) jennings (at) taylor (dot) k12 (dot) fl (dot) us


*** Posted by Mark Jennings on 2008-10-01 ***

I was reading some of the memorials here, and my heart is so touched by the beautiful words of love.

*** Posted by Amy on 2008-09-30 ***

My Angel ...

The days here have been filled with rain and are really gloomy.... It makes me sit and think of you so much. Our 21st anniversary is coming up, and I will go to the memorial and spend some time remembering when October 23rd, 21 years ago, was the most beautiful day of my life.... How I wish you were here to celebrate with me, but my heart is with only you....
I love you so much.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-09-29 ***


I would love to have copies of those pictures.... I have some that Steve had, but I don't really know where they were taken.... I have to look again to see if he wrote anything on them. I am still putting albums together, so my son Steven will have everything in order.... Steve has a chest full of things here from the navy. I remember he even pulled out a sort of ration kit once. I still have everything of his here, and it will stay with us forever. I was so blessed to have him in my life and to be his wife.... He was such an incredible man and an angel on this earth.... If you don't have any objections, can you post an e-mail on here where I can contact you off this site? I would be grateful.... Thank you so much for answering again!

Barbara and Steven

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-09-26 ***

My Love,

It seems the days are getting shorter and shorter so quickly, and the air is cooling down, especially in the evening. It really feels like fall now, and I know it was one of your favorite times of the year, not too hot and not too cold.... I know that winter is on its heels and will be here before we know it.... How I wish you were here to share it with us! I love you so much.

My heart to yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-09-24 ***


I'm glad my post touched you and Steven. I have a couple of pictures that I took of Steve: one on the Bigelow, and one when we were in Venice, Italy. They're not great, but I'd be glad to email you electronic copies if you'd like.


*** Posted by Mark Jennings on 2008-09-24 ***

Hi Sweetheart,

It's late at night, and I was just sitting here thinking of you, as usual. The day was such a beautiful fall day with the huge clouds in the sky that you know I love so much. The cool air felt so wonderful. It reminded me of the walks we would take together on these cool days. I still walked, but felt so alone.... I love you, sweetheart.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-09-20 ***

My Angel,

The days are really passing so quickly. I can't believe that a week has already passed since 9/11. I sit and I watch as the night sky comes earlier now, and there is a slight chill in the air. Some of the leaves are starting to change, and so I know that another year is coming to an end. It's amazing how when you lose the only person you will ever be in love with, time stands still--or at least it seems as though it does. You know the world around you is going on, yet you feel left behind, as if you are waiting for something--or as in my case someone. That someone will always be you. I will stay here for the rest of my life, if I have to, because I love you so very much.

My heart to only yours forever,
Your wife, Barbara

*** Posted by Barbara Chucknick on 2008-09-18 ***

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